Rescuing Lonely Hearts One e-Mail at a Time
Posted by: Chaszey Sandhriel in Internet, tags: InternetThere are millions of people looking for their true love on the Internet. The challenge is that many feel intensely frustrated with the process. These love sick people are meeting all kinds of wrong people, or even worse, they’re not meeting anyone at all. That’s why many of them are turning to Online Dating Coach, Chaszey Sandhriel.
Chaszey says: “Most people don’t realize that what they truly want in a partner contradicts who they are themselves at the core. They are one thing and desire another.” She adds: “The beginning of successful Online dating starts with a profile that is unique because it projects the strength of who you are, because it shows your most authentic Self and because you are honestly communicating who you are really looking for in a partner.”
A successful profile can be put together remembering these three important steps:
1. The right screen name Most people tend to forget that screen names communicate novels. Screen names like “ServeMeRight,” “Looking2Please69,” “WorshipGoddess” may communicate things to people that you had not intended. Try not to communicate too much with your screen name and definitely don’t leave room for guess work when choosing your screen name.
2. Choosing photos that work “People don’t realize that the main headshot is what many people base their decision on and based on this one picture some may never even look at the profile, so your main photo is the most important one,” says Chaszey. It’s amazing to see how many people put photos up wearing their sunglasses and baseball cap, covering just about anything important. This will result in many people never even opening up their profile. Your main photo should show your eyes and your face and you should not wear a hat, even if you’re bald. Photos that produce result show your eyes and face and you look into the camera. Photos should show you in a variety of settings, headshot, half body shot and full body shot. This is not the time to hide what you look like, this is the time to be honest.
3. Your profile Be clear, honest and fair when describing yourself There is no need to deceive anyone by hiding your full figured self from your audience. It is only a matter of time until you have to show up in person, at which time your true self will be in full view. So don’t try to hide who you are. Never lie about things such as your age, how much you earn or what you do for a living. How do you expect to find the love of your life when you start off deceiving the whole world around you by your mere profile? Be honest, be authentic, be your Self. You’re beautiful and gorgeous and handsome and successful just the way you are.
4. Show clarity when describing the partner you are looking to attract There is no need to describe the Stepford wife or your Knight and Shining Armor in your profile. Everyone wants someone who is honest, ethical, beautiful or handsome. Too many adjectives result in going in one ear and out the other. Instead you may try to write how you want to feel when you are with that person or perhaps you want to describe what you want to accomplish together with this partner of yours.
Chaszey Sandhriel is Your Online Dating Coach and helps Online Daters create sizzling results. You can visit her at www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call her at 415.419.7952.
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